Any life-changing event such as the birth of a new baby or a spinal cord injury can affect sexual wellness. So can a chronic disease or a physical disability.
The following brief essays by Dr. Owens all address specific diseases, disabilities, and circumstances with a potential impact on sexuality.
The information contained in these articles is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment. The Charlottesville Sexual Health & Wellness Clinic recommends consultation with your physician or health care professional in case of medical concerns.
Some people have little interest in sex, whether afflicted by a medical or physical disability or not. A decision not to engage in sexual activity - for whatever reason - is always valid and should be respected.
The essays listed on the left are intended for those individuals who do wish to explore their sexuality and find answers to questions they may have about sexual concerns. The information is meant to apply to singles and couples with any sexual orientation.
| Everybody needs love and affection. Having a chronic illness or physical disability often increases the need for emotional support and physical contact by a partner, family member or friend. |
| Hug, kiss, embrace each other. Do not hold back these gestures in fear of triggering sexual feelings. |
| If you have a partner, try to be open with each other about how your life is affected by the specific circumstance. |
| Talk about problems as they appear. |
| Go to the doctor together. It will be easier to absorb all information, and you can give each other support. |
| Ask your doctor to tell you about possible side effects if you are taking medication. |
| Try to understand your specific illness and be aware of how your sexuality may be affected. Know how you may be able to resolve some of the problems if they should occur. You may find some of the answers in the essays to follow. |
| Try to eliminate controllable risk factors affecting your general and sexual health: Stop smoking; choose a diet that is low in saturated fats and salt; exercise. |
| Erectile dysfunction can have psychological and/or physical causes. Sometimes the problem is resolved after the medication has been adjusted. Sexual counseling or sex therapy may be helpful. Various other treatment options exist. |
| If you are single and afflicted by a disease or disability you may worry about how to attract a new partner. You may have family members or friends who can give you love, affection, and understanding, and you may benefit from joining a support group in your local area. |
| Support groups usually welcome individuals, couples, family members, and friends who wish to share their concerns. |
| If your general health allows it, enjoy a mental vacation by joining a yoga class or regularly having a massage. |
| Have a positive attitude. |
The Charlottesville Sexual Health & Wellness Clinic offers individual and group sessions for anybody concerned about sexuality issues. If you live in the Charlottesville area and are interested in participating, please submit your contact information and a brief description of your concern using group@cvillewellness.com.