The information contained in these articles is not a substitute for
medical advice or treatment. The Charlottesville Sexual Health & Wellness
Clinic recommends consultation with your physician or health care
professional in case of medical concerns.
Some people have little interest in sex, whether afflicted by a medical
or physical disability or not. A decision not to engage in sexual activity -
for whatever reason - is always valid and should be respected.
The essays listed on the left are intended for those individuals who do
wish to explore their sexuality and find answers to questions they may have
about sexual concerns. The information is meant to apply to singles and
couples with any sexual orientation.
General comments
 | Everybody needs love and affection. Having a chronic illness or
physical disability often increases the need for emotional support and
physical contact by a partner, family member or friend. |
| Hug, kiss, embrace each other. Do not hold back these gestures in fear
of triggering sexual feelings. |
| If you have a partner, try to be open with each other about how your
life is affected by the specific circumstance. |
| Talk about problems as they appear. |
| Go to the doctor together. It will be easier to absorb all
information, and you can give each other support. |
| Ask your doctor to tell you about possible side effects if you are
taking medication. |
| Try to understand your specific illness and be aware of how your
sexuality may be affected. Know how you may be able to resolve some of the
problems if they should occur. You may find some of the answers in the
essays to follow. |
| Try to eliminate controllable risk factors affecting your general and
sexual health: Stop smoking; choose a diet that is low in saturated fats
and salt; exercise. |
| Erectile dysfunction can have psychological and/or physical causes.
Sometimes the problem is resolved after the medication has been adjusted.
Sexual counseling or sex therapy may be helpful. Various other treatment
options exist. |
| If you are single and afflicted by a disease or disability you may
worry about how to attract a new partner. You may have family members or
friends who can give you love, affection, and understanding, and you may
benefit from joining a support group in your local area. |
| Support groups usually welcome individuals, couples, family members,
and friends who wish to share their concerns. |
| If your general health allows it, enjoy a mental vacation by joining a
yoga class or regularly having a massage. |
| Have a positive attitude. |
